The Ultimate Guide to Choosing a Marriage Celebrant

Your marriage celebrant is arguably the most important vendor you'll book — they're the person who legally marries you and sets the emotional tone for your entire ceremony. In Australia, you must be married by a registered celebrant, and there are over 10,000 to choose from, so finding the right fit is essential.

Start by deciding what style of ceremony you want. Do you envision something traditional and formal, or relaxed and full of laughter? Some celebrants specialise in heartfelt, emotional ceremonies, while others are known for their humour and ability to put nervous couples at ease. Many can blend both elements seamlessly.

When meeting potential celebrants, ask about their process. How many times will you meet before the wedding? Do they help write personalised vows? How do they handle the legal paperwork (the Notice of Intended Marriage must be lodged at least one month before your wedding)? Can they provide references from recent couples?

Consider practical factors too. Check their availability for your date, ask about their backup plan if they fall ill, and clarify what they wear — some celebrants dress to match your wedding's formality, while others have a signature style. If you're having a destination wedding, ask about travel fees.

A good celebrant will take the time to get to know you as a couple — your story, your values, and what matters most to you about your ceremony. They should make you feel comfortable and heard, and their ceremony style should resonate with both partners. Don't be afraid to meet several celebrants before making your decision; the right one will feel like a natural fit.